1 After this, Absalom the son of David had a beautiful sister, whose name was Tamar; and Amnon the son of David loved her. 2 Amnon was so troubled that he became sick because of his sister Tamar, for she was a virgin, and it seemed hard to Amnon to do anything to her. 3 But Amnon had a friend whose name was Jonadab the son of Shimeah, David’s brother; and Jonadab was a very subtle man. 4 He said to him, "Why, son of the king, are you so sad from day to day? Won’t you tell me?"
Amnon said to him, "I love Tamar, my brother Absalom’s sister."
5 Jonadab said to him, "Lay down on your bed and pretend to be sick. When your father comes to see you, tell him, ‘Please let my sister Tamar come and give me bread to eat, and prepare the food in my sight, that I may see it and eat it from her hand.’"
6 So Amnon lay down and faked being sick. When the king came to see him, Amnon said to the king, "Please let my sister Tamar come and make me a couple of cakes in my sight, that I may eat from her hand."
7 Then David sent home to Tamar, saying, "Go now to your brother Amnon’s house, and prepare food for him." 8 So Tamar went to her brother Amnon’s house; and he was lying down. She took dough, kneaded it, made cakes in his sight, and baked the cakes. 9 She took the pan and poured them out before him, but he refused to eat. Amnon said, "Have all men leave me." Then every man went out from him. 10 Amnon said to Tamar, "Bring the food into the room, that I may eat from your hand." Tamar took the cakes which she had made, and brought them into the room to Amnon her brother. 11 When she had brought them near to him to eat, he took hold of her and said to her, "Come, lie with me, my sister!"
12 She answered him, "No, my brother, do not force me! For no such thing ought to be done in Israel. Don’t you do this folly. 13 As for me, where would I carry my shame? And as for you, you will be as one of the fools in Israel. Now therefore, please speak to the king; for he will not withhold me from you."
14 However, he would not listen to her voice; but being stronger than she, he forced her and lay with her. 15 Then Amnon hated her with exceedingly great hatred; for the hatred with which he hated her was greater than the love with which he had loved her. Amnon said to her, "Arise, be gone!"
16 She said to him, "Not so, because this great wrong in sending me away is worse than the other that you did to me!"
But he would not listen to her. 17 Then he called his servant who ministered to him, and said, "Now put this woman out from me, and bolt the door after her."
18 She had a garment of various colors on her, for the king’s daughters who were virgins dressed in such robes. Then his servant brought her out and bolted the door after her. 19 Tamar put ashes on her head, and tore her garment of various colors that was on her; and she laid her hand on her head and went her way, crying aloud as she went. 20 Absalom her brother said to her, "Has Amnon your brother been with you? But now hold your peace, my sister. He is your brother. Don’t take this thing to heart."
So Tamar remained desolate in her brother Absalom’s house. 21 But when king David heard of all these things, he was very angry. 22 Absalom spoke to Amnon neither good nor bad; for Absalom hated Amnon, because he had forced his sister Tamar.
23 After two full years, Absalom had sheep shearers in Baal Hazor, which is beside Ephraim; and Absalom invited all the king’s sons. 24 Absalom came to the king and said, "See now, your servant has sheep shearers. Please let the king and his servants go with your servant."
25 The king said to Absalom, "No, my son, let’s not all go, lest we be burdensome to you." He pressed him; however he would not go, but blessed him.
26 Then Absalom said, "If not, please let my brother Amnon go with us."
The king said to him, "Why should he go with you?"
27 But Absalom pressed him, and he let Amnon and all the king’s sons go with him. 28 Absalom commanded his servants, saying, "Mark now, when Amnon’s heart is merry with wine; and when I tell you, ‘Strike Amnon,’ then kill him. Don’t be afraid. Haven’t I commanded you? Be courageous, and be valiant!"
29 The servants of Absalom did to Amnon as Absalom had commanded. Then all the king’s sons arose, and every man got up on his mule and fled.
30 While they were on the way, the news came to David, saying, "Absalom has slain all the king’s sons, and there is not one of them left!"
31 Then the king arose, and tore his garments, and lay on the earth; and all his servants stood by with their clothes torn. 32 Jonadab the son of Shimeah, David’s brother, answered, "Don’t let my lord suppose that they have killed all the young men, the king’s sons, for Amnon only is dead; for by the appointment of Absalom this has been determined from the day that he forced his sister Tamar. 33 Now therefore don’t let my lord the king take the thing to his heart, to think that all the king’s sons are dead; for only Amnon is dead." 34 But Absalom fled. The young man who kept the watch lifted up his eyes and looked, and behold, many people were coming by way of the hillside behind him. 35 Jonadab said to the king, "Behold, the king’s sons are coming! It is as your servant said." 36 As soon as he had finished speaking, behold, the king’s sons came, and lifted up their voices and wept. The king also and all his servants wept bitterly.
37 But Absalom fled and went to Talmai the son of Ammihur, king of Geshur. David mourned for his son every day. 38 So Absalom fled and went to Geshur, and was there three years. 39 King David longed to go out to Absalom, for he was comforted concerning Amnon, since he was dead.
1 大卫的儿子押沙龙有一个美丽的妹妹, 名叫他玛; 大卫的儿子暗嫩爱上了她。
2 暗嫩为了他妹妹他玛的缘故, 因爱成病。因为他玛还是处女, 所以暗嫩看来很难对她采取什么行动。
3 暗嫩有一个朋友, 名叫约拿达, 是大卫的哥哥示米亚的儿子。约拿达是一个非常狡猾的人。
4 他问暗嫩说: "王子啊! 你为什么一天比一天瘦弱呢?你可以告诉我吗?"暗嫩说: "我爱上了我兄弟押沙龙的妹妹他玛。"
5 约拿达对他说: "你可以躺在床上装病。你父亲来看你的时候, 你就对他说: ‘求你叫我的妹妹他玛来, 把食物递给我吃; 叫她在我眼前预备食物, 好使我可以看见, 也可以从她的手中取食。’"
6 于是暗嫩躺着装病。王来看他, 暗嫩对王说: "求你叫我的妹妹他玛来, 叫她在我眼前给我做两个饼, 我可以从她的手里拿过来吃。"
7 大卫就派人到宫里去对他玛说: "你到你哥哥暗嫩的屋里去, 为他预备食物。"
8 他玛就到她哥哥暗嫩的屋里去; 暗嫩正躺着。他玛取了点面, 把面和好, 就在暗嫩面前做饼, 并且把饼烤熟了。
9 她拿过锅来, 在他面前把饼倒出来, 暗嫩却不肯吃, 他说: "叫众人离开我出去! "众人就都离开他出去了。
10 暗嫩对他玛说: "把食物带到卧房来, 我好从你的手里拿过来吃。"他玛拿着她做好的饼, 进了卧房, 到她哥哥暗嫩那里去。
11 他玛上到他面前, 给他吃的时候, 暗嫩却拉住她, 对她说: "妹妹, 来与我同寝吧! "
12 他玛对他说: "不要! 哥哥! 不要污辱我! 在以色列中不可作这样的事。你不要作这丑事。
13 至于我, 我到哪里除去我的耻辱呢?至于你, 你在以色列中也会成了一个愚妄的人。现在请你去对王说, 他必不会禁止我归你的。"
14 但暗嫩不肯听她的话, 他又比他玛有力, 就污辱了她, 与她同寝。
15 事后, 暗嫩非常恨她; 他对他玛的恨比以前对她的爱更大, 所以暗嫩对她说: "你起来! 走吧! "
16 他玛却对他说: "我的哥哥啊, 不! 你赶我出去的这罪比你刚才与我所行的罪更大了。"但是暗嫩不肯听她的话,
17 就叫了侍候他的仆人来, 说: "把这女人从我面前赶到外面去, 然后把门锁上。"
18 那时他玛身上穿着长袖彩衣, 因为未嫁的公主都是这样穿的。那侍候暗嫩的仆人把她赶到外面去, 随后把门锁上。
19 他玛把尘土撒在自己的头上, 撕裂身上的长袖彩衣, 又把一只手放在头上, 一边行走一边哭叫。
20 她哥哥押沙龙问她: "是不是你哥哥暗嫩与你亲近了?我妹妹啊, 你现在不要作声, 他是你的哥哥, 你不要把这事放在心上。"于是他玛孤单凄凉地住在她哥哥押沙龙的家里。
21 大卫王听见了这一切事, 就非常生气。
22 押沙龙什么话都没有对暗嫩说。押沙龙恨暗嫩, 因为暗嫩污辱了他的妹妹他玛。
23 两年以后, 在以法莲边界的巴力.夏琐, 押沙龙雇了人为他剪羊毛, 押沙龙邀请王所有的儿子到那里去。
24 押沙龙去见王说: "看哪! 现在你的仆人雇了人剪羊毛; 请王和王的臣仆与我一同去。"
25 王对押沙龙说: "不! 我儿, 我们不必都去, 免得我们成为你的重担。"押沙龙再三勉强王去, 王还是不肯去, 只是为他祝福。
26 押沙龙说: "王若是不去, 求王让我的哥哥暗嫩与我一同去。"王问他: "为什么要他与你一同去呢?"
27 押沙龙再三求王, 王就派暗嫩和王所有的儿子与他一同去。
28 押沙龙吩咐他的仆人说: "你们注意! 暗嫩酒酣耳热的时候, 我对你们说: ‘击杀暗嫩! ’你们就把他杀死。不要惧怕, 这不是我吩咐你们的吗?你们要坚强, 作勇敢的人。"
29 押沙龙的仆人就照押沙龙所吩咐的, 向暗嫩行了。王所有的儿子就起来, 各人骑上自己的骡子逃跑了。
30 他们还在路上的时候, 有消息传到大卫那里, 说: "押沙龙杀了王所有的儿子, 没有剩下一个。"
31 王就起来, 撕裂衣服, 躺在地上。侍立在他身旁的所有臣仆, 也都撕裂衣服。
32 大卫的哥哥示米亚的儿子约拿达说: "我主不要以为所有的年轻人、王的儿子都被杀死了。其实死的只有暗嫩一人; 自从暗嫩污辱了押沙龙的妹妹他玛那一天起, 押沙龙就定意要杀死他了。
33 现在我主我王不要把这事放在心上, 以为王所有的儿子都死了。其实死的只有暗嫩一人。"
34 押沙龙逃走了。守望的年轻人举目观看, 看见许多人从后面山坡旁边的路而来。
35 约拿达对王说: "看哪! 王的儿子都回来了。正如你仆人所说的, 事情果然是这样。"
36 他刚说完了, 王的众子就都来到了, 他们都放声大哭; 王和他所有的臣仆也都号咷痛哭。
37 押沙龙逃亡, 走到基述王亚米忽的儿子达买那里去了。大卫天天为他的儿子哀伤。
38 押沙龙逃亡, 逃到基述那里去, 在那里住了三年。
39 大卫的心不再怀恨押沙龙, 对暗嫩的死也不再那么难过了。